Ultimately, sports is a visceral experience. There is only winning and losing. With all the comfortable, yet useless things we have, sports may be the last frontier that emotionally reminds us of life and death. You're alive now. And you will fight to stay alive until you're dead. That is life, in a nutshell. Athletes usually don't die when they lose (unless they play for a soccer team in Central America). But the feeling and emotion of the competition is similar. That's why it's so gratifying to win and so gut wrenching to lose. And why sports can be so damn satisfying to watch.
We envy athletes for many reasons. Their pay checks, of course. Their ability to get laid whenever they please. But ultimately, what we admire most is something called "presence of mind". The ability to keep your cool no matter what's going on - even when a mob of 30,000 people screams for your head. What do you do? If you can keep your presence of mind and never panic, you become god-like in your demeanor. And pay checks and unlimited sex always come to god-like people (but be careful, so does Aids, as Magic Johnson found out).
THE DETACHED BUDDHA TACTIC
But like all Lakers teams, they fell asleep and by the final seconds the Spurs were only down one point. The crowd was alive once more like an awakened monster. But the Lakers were still up 72-71 with several seconds left. One more defensive stop and they would go home victorious.
But they failed again, allowing Tim Duncan a desperation shot in the final seconds. The building erupted like the wrong neighborhood of Jurassic Park. It was earsplitting in the Alamo Dome. The Spurs were up 72-71 with 0.4 seconds left. The Lakers were fucked.
Everyone looked to coach Phil Jackson, who was yawning and disinterested. He drew a play for a lob pass to Shaq and left Kobe as a second option, Malone as a third, Derek Fisher as a fourth. Gary Payton would take the inbound pass. However, the lob pass was really the only hope. It was the only play that could be pulled off quickly enough.
The Spurs were aware of this, which is why they blanketed Shaq. . Plus, it was impossible for Payton to concentrate with 30,000 people screaming. He called a time out.
Back on the sidelines, Jackson looked like he was nearly asleep at the DMV. He insisted on the same play. Lob pass to Shaq, Kobe and Malone as an alternative. But again Payton had no one to pass the ball to. With every option well covered, Payton was forced to call another time out. Their last.
This time, Jackson looked slightly irritated. It seemed like he just wanted the game to be over, fly back to his house in Playa Del Rey and hang out with his girlfriend, Jeannie Buss. Derek Fisher, the back up point guard at the time, volunteered to Gary Payton that he might have enough space to for one shot. Fisher was the least covered of the four. When Payton looked at Jackson, the illusive coach didn't encourage or discourage the idea. He shrugged. Did he even hear Fisher's idea? You couldn't hear your own thoughts in this bloodthirsty madness of a crowd.
Didn't matter. The game was over. What did Payton have to lose? Perhaps he was too focused on Shaq and Kobe and not all his options. He didn't even glance at Shaq or Kobe this time. Without hesitation, he kicked the ball out to Fisher. The moment the ball touched Fisher's fingertips, the milliseconds ticked off. 0.3. Fisher turns around. 0.2. Fisher in a shooting motion. 0.1. Fisher let's go of the ball. 0.0. Buzzer. EEEEENNNNNNGGGGGGGG!
And like that, 30,000 Spurs fans looked like they swallowed sand. 73-72 Lakers. Game over. The T-Rex silently went back to sleep. A miraculous win for the Lakers. Or was it?
INTERPRETATION
Spurs coach Gregg Popovich called this defeat the most cruel of his career. In fact, Popovich had battled against Phil Jackson's Lakers for several years now and rarely found himself on the winning end. The 0.4 second victory might have been Phil Jackson's most incredulous feat, but there were others.
In Game 4 of 2002 Western Conference Finals, Robert Horry put up the game winning shot against the more formidable Sacramento Kings to win 100-99 at the buzzer.
In Game 6 of the 1997 Finals, Steve Kerr delivered the final daggers against the Utah Jazz to take their fifth championship.
On June 5, 2000, Phil Jackson's Lakers were down 15 points with less than 10 minutes against the unbreakable Portland Trailblazers. Until Brian Shaw sparked a 15-0 run to win the game and take the Lakers to the first of 3 consecutive titles.
Most NBA coaches have great basketball minds and formulate great strategies against their opponents. Until the moment there's 11 seconds left in a game. This is when most coaches collapse and lose their cool. They operate out of fear and do something uncharacteristic. The pressure is too much.
Jackson teaches his players to face their fears by applying a lot of trust in them. He insists that basketball is very simple. It's not rocket science. When a game starts, Jackson does not believe his guys need more knowledge or intellect, but resolve and mental toughness. He knows the only way to achieve this is for his players to make their own decisions. This makes them mentally tough and wards off the usual emotions that come with stressful moments -- like doubt, cautiousness and fear.
Resolve is the first thing we lose in these moments but as Robert Greene says, "being careful is not what we need, what we need is double the resolve, an intensification of confidence, that will serve as a counter-balance... Find joy in attack mode. Your momentum will carry your through".
KEYS TO ENGAGEMENT
Think about it. Routine makes you feel safe. That's why they're routines. Predictability makes you feel safe. Everything about society today is about safety and comfort. You are led to believe that safety and comfort brings you joy. Until you face something truly dangerous. Your dependable routine suddenly evaporates. You become confused. You feel betrayed. What happened to those dependable routines? You realize they were just a mirage.
Your mind and collection of thoughts feel very strong, but in reality, they're just information. Your mind has no strength. Your emotions have the real strength. They are what ultimately controls you. But they are very difficult to tame, because you don't see the need for it.
Instead of learning to tame this stallion-like emotional parts of us, we fill the void by collecting more information and being under the impression this will protect us in times of danger of conflict. The problem is, our weak mind panics and our untamed emotions take over. Then, we topple.
The only way to tame your emotions is by training it like a dog. Your dog won't learn to sit unless you teach it to. Your dog won't respect you unless you command it. Your emotions are not unlike this. Most of us leave emotions untamed and react to them at will. That's why, like a dog that humps the first thing in its path, emotion always pops up at the wrong time. But if you learn how to train it, the dog will remain disciplined and only do what you tell it -- and protect you when you need it.
The best way to train your emotions is by constantly exposing it to conflict -- by not avoiding conflict, like most people, but facing it. Since conquering your fears give you confidence. Avoiding them makes you weak.
Phil Jackson learned how to deal with conflict when he coached in the Baloncesto Superior Nacional, the Puerto Rican basketball league. A league where the refs would sometimes pull a knife on a player. Chicken blood was spilled on the side of your basket to curse you. If you were a road team and about to win, you had to run to the parking lot for fear the home crowd would turn into a violent mob and chase after you and your teammates. Planning quick exits after a victory was part of the game plan.
After this life or death experience, anything else Jackson dealt with was peanuts. The Shaq and Kobe drama. Kobe's rape trial in Colorado. Jackson's own turmoil with Jerry Krause, the owner of the Chicago Bulls. Being down 24 points during a playoff game or a championship game. It was never a big deal. When everything appeared like it was going to fall apart, his players looked to Phil Jackson and saw a man who was calm and unbothered. Their reaction? They became relaxed too. If coach isn't bothered by it, why should we be? Perhaps our fear of the situation is not justified. The coach trusts us so why shouldn't we trust ourselves? Let's go win this. Phil Jackson understood that his players had to be self-reliant to become successful. Just like all of us. When we're confident and make decisions, we feel good about ourselves and get things done. When we're indecisive, we're unattractive and make people nervous.
We panic during stressful situations because we experience "fight or flight" instinct. What animals feel when their life is threatened. But we are so in denial of death that we experience "fight or flight" when we get overcharged by our cell phone company or we ask the boss for a raise or when our car breaks down. Whenever our routine is broken, our emotions believe it is threatening our lives and we panic.
The truth is, your life is always threatened. You could be dead at any moment for any variety of reasons. What you believe to be safety is really an illusion. You're lucky to be alive. So you see, nothing you deal with should be that strenuous. Idiot colleagues at your job. Relatives that talk down on you. A jerk that you must break up with. Anything that must be overcome is not a big deal. Because you are alive now. At this moment. And that's all the really matters. Everything else is gravy.
REVERSAL
You never want to lose your presence of mind but perhaps if you are dealing with an opponent who's weaknesses are obvious to you, disrupt their presence of mind and force them to reveal more about themselves than they'd like to.





























